I wrote this on another blog and couldn’t decided whether I should share it on that one or this one. I decided on both. I’ve been circling around a thought the last two months. Yesterday I took the day off and this came out.
I’ve learned over this past summer, the past ten months about who I really am. And through these months I’ve realized who I really am I like. I don’t have to hide behind a wall refusing to let people in. I don’t have to only show people a glimpse of who I am. It’s safe to be all of me.
These last two months I’ve come to realize not everyone is willing to be real. Not everyone is willing to step away from the wall. Not everyone is willing to show people who they really are. Some aren’t willing because they’re afraid. Others aren’t willing because they like the control.
And that alone I understand now. I understand why there is only take never give. Only a pretending of giving. I understand why others said what they said and others walked away. I understand.
xoxo
Chameleon
It changes its skin
To match its surroundings
To fit right in
Hidden and doubting
Is it for safety?
Or is it for shame?
Protection from danger?
A mindless head game?
From what I’ve seen
It’s most definitely the latter
Trying to fit in
To feel like it matters
But the facade put up
Can only hold for so long
Before it crumbles
Th secret long gone
The crowd will move
Away from the lies
As the chameleon
Fits in a new guise
It can only pretend
Before it is found
To be fickle and shallow
Standing on unsteady ground
Each passing day
As it changes it’s color
Can’t be it’s real self
We finally discover
Fitting in is fine
But you should be the real you
A chameleon can only change
Into so many hues
October 4, 2017 at 3:28 am
This is so very relatable to me…thank you for sharing! Well done 🙂
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October 5, 2017 at 10:56 am
Thank you. How do you relate to the poem? What do you see yourself doing as a “chameleon”?
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October 5, 2017 at 4:54 pm
Well, I’ve had a pretty challenging year with just figuring out who I am and what my purpose is. I’m learning a lot about the people in my life and who is really there for me. I am learning how to not be like a chameleon and how to stand out above the rest, whereas before this summer I don’t think I really understood how to stand out. I think this piece really makes you think about how you can stand out and be who you are without reservation 🙂
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October 6, 2017 at 8:24 am
It sounds like it was a learning summer for the both of us! I was thinking, it’s okay to be reserved sometimes. That isn’t a bad thing. When you go into situations you are unsure of slowing getting your feet wet won’t hurt you. It’s when you become something you aren’t for the sake of fitting in that will get you. This summer for me, it became crystal clear the ones who actually meant through thick and thin and allowed me to be the real me. It’s been such a blessing and in a way affirmation.
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October 6, 2017 at 9:01 am
I absolutely agree!! This summer was definitely a huge learning experience and I feel like I’ve come out of it pretty strong. Sounds the same for you!
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October 6, 2017 at 9:16 am
Yes! It’s been definitely a rocky journey. But I don’t regret it!
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October 6, 2017 at 9:26 am
And you shouldn’t! I take it as a very valuable learning experience 🙂
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September 30, 2017 at 10:12 pm
Awesome thought. Resonates with thoughts that I have been mulling over for the last couple of days.
I am a ‘conflict-avoider’. And I tend to shy away from situations where I smell a conflict of interest. That often leads me towards not achieving what i am deserving of.
But another part inside of me is in constant revolt against this conflict avoider entity. It calls him names, sometimes a ‘door-mat’, sometimes a ‘chameleon’.
This tussle inside, between the two ‘thought-entities’ is keeping me disturbed, but I know ultimately the former will prevail after a few days of pacifying the latter.
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October 5, 2017 at 10:55 am
But, is it worth pacifying the chameleon? For me, I’m tired of playing make pretend. I don’t want to be a person who is someone else for someone else. It isn’t worth it. You lose your self worth little by little doing it. At least I did. I see others doing the same.
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